Behavioral and Physical Warning Signs That a Child Has Been Abused
Any one sign does not mean that the child was abused. Some of the behaviors below can show up during stressful times in a child's life, as well as when abuse
occurs. If you see several of these signs in a child you know ell, please begin to ask questions.
Nightmares, trouble sleeping, fear of the dark, or other sleeping problems.
Extreme fear of "monsters."
Spacing out at odd times.
Loss of appetite, or trouble eating or swallowing.
Fear of certain people or places. For example, a child may not want to be left alone with a baby-sitter, a friend, a relative, or some other child or adult; or a child who is usually talkative and cheery may become quiet and distant when around a certain person.
Stomach illness all of the time with no identifiable reason.
An older child behaving like a younger child, such as bed-wetting or thumb sucking.
Sexual activities with toys or other children, such as simulating sex with dolls or asking other children/siblings to behave sexually.
New words for private body parts.
Refusing to talk about a "secret" he or she has with an adult or older child.
Talking about a new older friend.
Suddenly having money.
Cutting or burning herself or
himself as an adolescent.
Physical Warning Sings include...
Unexplained bruises, redness, or bleeding of the child's genitals, anus, or mouth?
Pain at the genitals, anus, or mouth?
Genital sores or milky fluids in the genital area?
If you said "yes" to any of these examples, take your child to a doctor. Your doctor can help you understand what may be happening and test for sexually transmitted diseases.
From: "Because There Is a Way to Prevent Child Sexual Abuse: Facts About Abuse and Those Who Might Commit It", Joan Tabachnick, Editor,
Stop It Now, Haydenville, MA, 1998.
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